Monday, April 15, 2013 | 6:04 AM | 0 Atasinchi
Assalammualaikum w.b.tOlla,quite long time I don't update my blog,Today I wanna discussed some topic about positive and negative.Maybe some reader outside there still blurr,okeh i wanna to make clear.wait,wait.Before that my writting base on what i see and what i heard.okeh let start.
Firsly,some people might says that positive thinking is the major to be successful.yah that true i quite agreed with it.Some scientist has been made some research positive thinking can boost self-confident level.I'm sure all of you agreed.right.Positive thinking is the power to generated and spread "positivity" to all part of the body to moved on to other step like your attitude,personality and how you spoke with other people.And how you make decision.They can judge you base on this.
Secondly,i have some example of situation that i want to share with you.#letcheckThisOut.
Firdaus applied for a new job. However, he was sure that he was not going to get the job, since his self-esteem was low, and he considered himself as a failure and unworthy of success.He had a negative attitude towards himself, and therefore,believed that the other applicants were better and more qualified than him.Firdaus manifested this attitude,due to his negative past experiences with job interviews.
Firdaus's mind was full with negative thoughts and fears concerning the job, for the whole week preceding the job interview. He was sure he would be rejected.On the day of the interview he got up late, and to his horror he discovered that the shirt he had planned to wear was dirty, and the other one needed ironing. As it was already too late, he went out wearing a shirt full of wrinkles.
During the interview he was tense, displayed a negative attitude, worried about his shirt, and felt hungry because he did not have enough time to eat breakfast. All this distracted his mind and made it difficult for him to focus on the interview. His overall behavior made a bad impression, and consequently he materialized his fear and did not get the job.
Adam applied for the same job too, but approached the matter in a different way. He was sure that he was going to get the job. During the week preceding the interview he often visualized himself making a good impression and getting the job.
In the evening before the interview he prepared the clothes he was going to wear, and went to sleep a little earlier. On day of the interview he woke up earlier than usual, and had ample time to eat breakfast, and then to arrive to the interview before the scheduled time.He got the job because he made a good impression. He had also of course, the proper qualifications for the job, but so had Firdaus.What do we learn from these two stories? Was there any magic used? No, everything happened in natural way.
Lastly,when our attitude is positive, we enjoy pleasant feelings and visualize what we really want to happen. This brings brightness to the eyes, more energy and happiness. The whole being broadcasts good will, happiness and success. Even our health is affected in a beneficial way. We walk tall, our voice is more powerful, and our body language shows the way we feel.
#ThankForReadingThis.Even though my writing is not interesting.thank you one more time.
